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2. Think about the pros and cons. What problems does this pain cause you? Does it affect your relationship with this person? With others? Does it affect work or family? Does it stop you from pursuing your dreams,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or becoming a better person? Does it cause you unhappiness? Think of all these problems,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and realize you need to change. Then think of the benefits of forgiveness — how it will make you happier,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], free you from the past and the pain, improve things with your relationships and life in general.
3. Realize you have a choice. You cannot control the actions of others, and shouldn’t try. But you can control not only your actions, but your thoughts. You can stop reliving the hurt, and can choose to move on. You have this power. You just need to learn how to exercise it.
1. Commit to letting go. You aren’t going to do it in a second or maybe not even in a day. It can take time to get over something. So commit to changing, because you recognize that the pain is hurting you.
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